When/where did we meet?

We met officially at Home Hardware the day before my 17th birthday. I was a cashier and he worked out in the yard and happened to give me a ride home as the guy I was seeing never came to get me.

Where was our first date?

Extreme Scoop, a local ice creams place on my 17th birthday. He had cookie dough and I had birthday cake ice cream, mine was too big for me to finish so he took ice cream off the top and threw it to the ground. This is when I knew we were both freaks.

Where/when was our first kiss?

I took a trip to Toronto to the place he was renting for school and before going to bed we kissed each other goodnight.

Who said “I love you” first?

Definitely him.

What’s my weirdest habit?

Spencer – “How you only like beef cooked in certain ways.”

Me – “How you always have to be wearing slippers around the house.”

Where was our first trip together?

Our first year of living together in Toronto we took a four-day trip down to Ottawa by train. We stayed at the cutest bed and breakfast, walked the streets but sadly it was also the time a fallen solder was murdered, Corporal Nathan Cirillo.

What is my best personality trait?

Spencer – “How caring you are.”

Me – “How you are always an optimist.”

Why do you think you were attracted to me?

Spencer – “You just weren’t like other girls, you weren’t into partying and the snottiness.”

Me – “You were always there for me, no matter how bad it was you could always make me smile.”

What do I do in my free time?

Spencer – “Netflix.”

Me – “Create something out of nothing, or read up on sports.”

How long have we dated?

We have been together for about 4.5 years plus 1 year of me just wanting to be friends.

Describe me in 3 words.

Spencer – “Caring, beautiful, and smart.”

Me – “Funny, inventive, and handsome.”

How long do I need in the morning to get ready?

Spencer – “An hour and a half.”

Me – “10 minutes.”

What is the first thing that you ever gave me?

Spencer – “I left you flowers outside your window on your 17thbirthday.”

Me – “I can’t really remember but I think it was for Christmas and it was a few Toronto Maple Leafs items.”

Which song reminds you of me?

Spencer – “Slide by Calvin Harris.”

Me – “Fifty Mission Cap by The Tragically Hip.”

Am I a morning or evening person?

Spencer – “Neither, mid-day.”

Me – “Morning.”

What is your first thought in the morning when you wake up next to me?

Spencer – “I’m going to sneak into bed without waking her up.”

Me – “What time is it? He’s always gone.”

When did you first realize you loved / liked me?

Spencer – “I don’t know… Probably… A few months after we started hanging out.” (It was probably earlier but he didn’t want to admit it because I’m too awesome)

Me – “The day you walked into my place with a new haircut and new confidence to you that I had never seen before.”

Can you read me by looking into my eyes?

Spencer – “Pretty well.”

Me – “No, his eyes are too dark for me to tell what’s going on in that big brain of his.”

What was your favourite date night we have had so far?

Spencer – “Probably the one where we went to that little cinema in Toronto and watched 2 movies, that was a lot of fun.”

Me – “You planned a whole day for our date in the first year we were together. First we went to the park, then the movies, dinner, and then to a field to look at the stars. Too bad we couldn’t really do the last one because of all the bugs.”

What is your dream/goal in life?

Spencer – “To set yourself up for the future, have a family and a house together.”

Me – “To own your own business and build the house of our dreams to raise our family.”


How would you answer these questions with your significant other? What makes a lasting relationship? Let me know!

Thank you so much for reading loves!



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